Dating Tips for Guys: A Woman's Perspective : How to Cure Yourself of Nice-Guy Syndrome

faetrn Says:

Oct 19, 2011 - Eh, good point. I never really understood why women are always like "ooo, he's into drugs, and has been in jail several times...let's get with him!" or whatnot. I don't see the attraction...but I'm a goody two shoes, so I probably don't really don't know much about being attracted to the "bad boys" or whatever. lol

faetrn Says:

Nov 5, 2011 - u mad bro?

mrsolofeo Says:

Nov 5, 2011 - But the term "nice guy" sort of denotes "passivity" So, my question to women is what is so horrendous about being a passive male--there are much worse things in the word--addicts, child abusers; etc,Do women imply that the only reason they "become involved" with a guy is with the expectation that their involvement will lead to marriage and children? I think not.The simple truth is that passive men cannot engage women in a way that makes them sexually receptive and responsive.

faetrn Says:

Nov 6, 2011 - You said "what's so hard about people being honest?" Well, that's where the whole "be yourself" thing comes into play. People are being honest when they are themselves.

mrsolofeo Says:

Nov 6, 2011 - I agree, people should just be themselves--but there are thousands of decent guys out there who are trying to be themselves and not getting anywhere. And they end up shaking their head and wondering what they did wrong.And they go to these dating sites and are told that they have to engage a woman this way and chat her up that way and be more Alpha and it all becomes just learning pick-up techniques and adapting a certain role--and once you do that, you're not being yourself any longer.

InsaneBillykane Says:

Nov 7, 2011 - This ones easy...Dont treat her like a human being and you will SLAYING MOUNTAINS OF PUNNANI IN NO TIME!!!

OPOCHKA Says:

Nov 12, 2011 - I feel seasick...Why don't you buy yourself a tri-pod for the camera ?

BillTheTrainer Says:

Dec 2, 2011 - Guys,It's really not hard to pick up girls. You just need to educate yourself and luckily, there's some sick guides out there. "The Game" by Neil Strauss started things off for me and most recently, I've been using the techniques from P.Box.Here's what you need to do:Step 1: Go to MackMethods. comStep 2: Get the "pandoras box" programStep 3: Use the tips and blend it in with your own twistPicking up girls is a skill. Educate yourself and you'll laugh at how easy it is.

docerex Says:

Jan 3, 2012 - I think the Tao of Steve said it best: "The Tao of Steve isn't about picking up lots of women. It's about being the best person you can be"

MaximusRightAngle Says:

Jan 25, 2012 - Since most people take that struggle all the way to the grave, yeah.

faetrn Says:

Jan 26, 2012 - Eh. Why wait?

MaximusRightAngle Says:

Jan 26, 2012 - Not a matter of wait, just of discovery. I don't know if anyone really finds themselves until they're probably old or dying. Life is after all about creating yourself not finding yourself...soooo how could it happen any sooner?

faetrn Says:

Jan 26, 2012 - I think there are ways to accelerate knowing what/who we are. Cultivating mindfulness? Meditation? I'm not really sure.

MaximusRightAngle Says:

Jan 27, 2012 - I agree. My point really is: girls say be yourself, but you should never take dating advice for girls, from girls. All that is needed really is to find a girl you like, if she likes you the rest is BS. The girl in the video is exactly the girl I will never date. I'm done with that personality, there are so many of her.

faetrn Says:

Jan 28, 2012 - This is true. They think that they know all that a man needs to know to get with a woman. I agree with you as far as the whole "you like me, 'cause I like you.." type of thing. Who cares about the rest? As long as you are mutually compatible and like each other, the rest is history. I hope you find someone you are compatible with though. ^^

joemoe23 Says:

Feb 11, 2012 - Its not about being nice or not being nice. It's about having self respect. Nice guys just come off as whiny, eager to please babies who don't have the self respect to do what is necessary. The bad-boy in comparison to the nice-guy is far more sexy because he's usually self assured and gets things done, even if he isn't the greatest catch. Sorry but sex makes the world go round and as much as well like to think we are not subject to our instincts the more we get pulled into them.

lester5192 Says:

Feb 16, 2012 - She has to have 1 close female friend, otherwise she will use you for girl talk and thats when you turn into a friend. Loner chicks who need to talk are bad news if they have issues.

inomefato Says:

Feb 22, 2012 - You always need "backbone", sure .. no girl wants a pushover however, a lot of girls DO want a nice guy. The game that you run depends on the "type" of girl you're with. According to a popular guru, there are 8 types of women (referring to their personalities) and each are attracted to different things.To figure out their "type", I ask them 3 specific questions.The questions are from a guide I got on MackMethods. com.. that's the program I use for this. Explains everything pretty much.

NoxiousRemedy Says:

Mar 10, 2012 - "The jerk doesn't always get the girl." Bullshit!

derhannoveraner Says:

Mar 16, 2012 - "i want a hand job on friday..........well righty, looks like its just you and me again"Well.. in your case you probably only get ugly girls. So, yea.. YOU have to lie.

Girdz17 Says:

Mar 16, 2012 - your that one person that doesnt like a joke, i feel sorry for you :(

FistofAmerica Says:

Apr 27, 2012 - ur hot. stop talking and show us ur tits

mn197979 Says:

May 15, 2012 - Thank you, your video/info very helpful.

romans52345 Says:

May 20, 2012 - she is very right about the last line..but i'll put it for you in a more blunt way...If you don't like yourself who the fuck else is gonna like ya??

MyLittleDiscolite Says:

May 21, 2012 - Rammstein gave the best advice ever in their song 'Pussy'. The whole point of male/female is sex. I enjoy girl talk and all that other gay shit because I like the perverse and morbid, but there's an understanding that at some point sex will be had or I just get bored and go back to my hobbies. Besides women age horribly and theres new 18 year olds at every high school and fresh corpses in each morgue daily. Hakuna Matata