Arranged marriages in India

Nynynottz Says:

Jul 18, 2011 - i know some of them do but sometimes the people who are forced into anarranged marriges end up cheatin on their partner because it was never love. i have no problem with it but i think that if your ok with having an arranged marrige then by all means go ahed but i dont think people should be forced.

MrJefe29 Says:

Jul 18, 2011 - r u mad arraanged marrigae doesn['t mean forcing on u, u get d option to choose d one u like and u can understand her before marrying her! its ur choice its not forced on us!

MrJefe29 Says:

Jul 18, 2011 - its same like a marriage date!

Nynynottz Says:

Jul 18, 2011 - errrm are u mad? i know of many pakistanis and indians that get forced by parents! like i sed b4 i have no prob with arranged marriges all im sayin is some get forced to marry. so stfu.

Nynynottz Says:

Jul 18, 2011 - hahaha!!

MrJefe29 Says:

Jul 19, 2011 - stfu u ,man, its not forced on us atleast i can say dat abt my parents,dat only happens in villages, d rich villagers they look for d same caste!

Nynynottz Says:

Jul 19, 2011 - gud for u.but stop chattin shitits well known in them asian families it even happens to british indian familys one of my mates ran away from home because of it. no village there so wats ur excuse now? anyway stop typing to me, i dont want to type 2u.. got other things to be doing... bye!

Nynynottz Says:

Jul 19, 2011 - ARRANGED MARRIGES SUCKKK!

MrJefe29 Says:

Jul 19, 2011 - ur trying to come wid ur own stuff, but dat definitely never happened around me or in my city!!

Nynynottz Says:

Jul 19, 2011 - good for u pudda

harris3693 Says:

Jul 31, 2011 - ifve been to india, u guys treat the poor like shit and the widows like nobodys, first fix up your social culture, then come back and tell me everything is fixed up!!!

harris3693 Says:

Jul 31, 2011 - umm, your idols are statues, fag........

aliciab27 Says:

Aug 1, 2011 - Times are changing my boyfriend is from India, his parents have asked him if he wants them to find him a wife and he said no! But yet his sister said yes! Usually they choose someone of equal looks, class, education.. It's like a personal match making service! I bet some Americans would like to have a line up to pick and choose from in our horrific dating scene!

AnnePatel1 Says:

Sep 10, 2011 - how old r u

sillykatz Says:

Sep 19, 2011 - I have a friend who is Indian and they told me it's like extreme blind dating, it's not a horrible thing if they choose it, and usually they do because well, it's easier than dating so why not? I personally don't have a problem with it, we have things like match.com they have arranged marriage. I wouldn't trust my parents but that is mainly because I'm gay and they would pick a super conservative white christian guy who I just wouldn't want to be around! Different stroke for different folks!

fcgfgcfg Says:

Oct 23, 2011 - My parents had love marriage.Both of them, human rights lawyers fighting the injustice of the 1970s Gov . She gave him shelter during the Emergency because evil Indira Gandhi was locking up everyone who was against her. My father was the leader of the state Youth Congress- so difficult to find a guy who is a fighter for social justice. Now they want me to have an arranged one because all we want is financial stability. My generation is more conservative than my parents' one.

congokong87 Says:

Oct 24, 2011 - "There is someone for everyone"? Not if India keeps aborting females.

predatorinstincts Says:

Dec 3, 2011 - @markthreemillion Indian's are so ugly? There are beautiful people and not so beautiful people in every race. Stop making such acerbic remarks on youtube.

qazxcvlfp Says:

Dec 13, 2011 - u hit it! the whole BACKWARDS DOWRY SYSTEM isa BIG part of why lil' girls r unwanted&its SO whacked up in india! DOWRY system comes from centuries back&even then its GIRLS FAMILY that gets dowry! how stupid 2 think that a GIRLS family should PAY dowry! the boys family gets a "daughter" 2 come live with THEM-1 more helping hand around the house-PLUS the girl brings the grandchildren! GIRLS IN INDIA MUST STAND UP &REFUSE 2MARRY ANY GUY WHOSE FAMILY DEMANDS A DOWRY! ONLY WAY2BREAK IT!

Indiaexpress Says:

Dec 15, 2011 - @harris3693 well i'm glad we dont marry our first cousins like u sister fucker pakis!

SashaFierce471 Says:

Dec 17, 2011 - Lol Indians.

yummmy1991 Says:

Mar 3, 2012 - love marriages are very good.i have examples in my family.grandparents have 49 years of marriage and my parents have 24 years.in the end it's all about respect and friendship.i couldn't ask for better role models

Indianatheistblore Says:

May 26, 2012 - India is a sick society.I am an Indian from India. I am involved in this forced type of arranged marriage system. I never want to marry from my caste understanding the genetic problems it caused. But I was forced by my parents to talk to a "girl" imagine a 26 year old GIRL!!.So eventually my mother kept a knife in her throat and asked me to talk to this GIRL of 26 years else she would move the knife. I decided one 1 CONDIITON. I want to meet this girl alone at a hotel ALONE.

Indianatheistblore Says:

May 26, 2012 - I dont know how but the Womans parents agreed except that the girls mother said she would come. I finally agreed but asked the mother to stay away when we were talking. She hesitatingly agreed (thank God).The conversation went something like this:we talked a lot about Job, weather, movies And then I asked her if she would like to have sex with me and if I was not upto the mark she could walk away from me.She instantly got up and ran away. Sometimes I feel I cannot figure out Indian women.

Indianatheistblore Says:

May 26, 2012 - yes parents bring u to this world. they feed you and teach you to talk etc. but then if everything was done by the parents then why the heck did God give you a brain?.Understand that God has given us a brain for a reason. And we have to use that Brain to decide ALL THINGS by ourselves and not let someone else decide for us.